Does creating a hierarchy of desired experience enrich or devalue life?
Does living equally in every moment erode experience into monotony?
Does regarding distinct moments as more valuable than others shorten our potential?
Or is this best lived within the grey spectrum?
Living within a hierarchy is detrimental. You loose everything while grinding towards a position, which ultimately cannot live up to your expectation. For the goal is only a single conscious moment.
I question if the opposite is even possible. Here are my questions, which are intuitively unsettling.
Can waiting for the roller coaster be as perfect as screaming through the first fall? Do we arrive in our favorite moments through societal or relational influence? Is brushing my teeth as pure as an orgasm? How about love, lust or infatuation? If I sit with somebody I love deeply, is that worth more to myself. I still have a preference. I still have a preference.
We need to learn to accept the value of our less choice moments, but still prefer to share our moments with important people in our lives. Prefer our passions. Recognize it, and we become individuals.